Sky-High Resolutions

May you reach for the sky in this New Year, knowing there are many different skies and knowing that the sky can change. This year I’m going to trust that whatever sky I’m in is where I am supposed to be.

Bear with me on the metaphor. (Honestly I was just going to post pretty sky pictures, but I felt compelled to say something.)

Let me be the first, however, to invite you to whip-scroll through and go back to your black-eyed peas. You are making black-eyed peas, aren’t you…

Long Island Winter Sky

Even though I’ll trust “my sky,” if it is raining, I will use an umbrella. If it is thundering, I’ll seek shelter. Trusting your sky does not mean being stupid.

But when it is overcast and uncertain, I’m just going to sit with it, knowing there is a glimmer on a horizon somewhere.

Long Island Winter Sky

Long Island Winter Sky

When it is all puffy and pink with pretty clouds, I’m going to say “thank you, this is just great.”

Sky, View from Rancho La Zaca

When it is ominous or scary, I’m going to say “help.”

Sky, near Santa Barbara, I think…

When it is totally unexpected and beautiful, I’m going to say “wow.”

Sunset at Rancho La Zaca

By the way have you read Anne Lamott’s Help. Thanks. Wow. ? Here is a very cool excerpt from Oprah.com. It is a terrific book about simple prayer that is short and has cuss words in it. My kind of prayer book.

Sunset at Rancho La Zaca

And when the sky is fine, but it isn’t what I had in mind, or what I thought I should have in mind, I’m going to say, “All righty then… that is /weird/dorky/uncool/a surprise/disappointment/challenge, but this is what’s in my sky right now. I’m going to look at it, and I’m by dern going to find the beauty in it and not attempt to negotiate another kind of sky.

Sunset at Rancho La Zaca

Sky, on the Way Home 

And when I see a sky so beautiful that I want to take a picture of it, I am going to pull over and do it.

Except when I can’t, like when I’m driving on the 101…

Sky Above the 101 North From Santa Barbara, taken while driving.

I totally do not recommend taking pictures while driving, and I am sure it is against the law in California, which almost everything is. I will probably get in trouble for not having a permit to take a picture of the sky in Santa Barbara County. And when that happens I will say… I cannot repeat it here.

Sometimes I see what I call a Voice of God sky like you would see in the movies, with a big, booming voice talking to Moses or somebody. It is so majestic and powerful and amazing. And then I imagine a voice saying, “Frances, my child, you really should not be taking pictures while driving on the 101…”

“I know, I know, I won’t do it again I promise…”

No but seriously, in this New Year, if I hear the sky talking, I will listen. What I need to make sure of is that I discern the difference between the sky, which is true or divine guidance; and my super-critical egoistic self which has ridiculous standards and discounts every good thing I do. Just sayin’.

Sky Above the Vineyard at Rancho La Zaca

Because the pay-off of that is a rainbow.

Double Rainbow Over Foxen Canyon

Maybe even a double rainbow.

Rainbow Over Rancho La Zaca

By “the sky,” of course I mean Who You Are, your inner voice, the divine, God, your heart, your bliss, your passion, whatever it is. In this New Year I’m going to keep looking for my whatever-it-is, and I’m going to start letting go of whatever it isn’t. I’m going to let go of some of that struggle. That feels a little scary, but good. Maybe touching the sky, whatever that means to you, is easier than it seems. Happy New Year.

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32 Responses to: Sky-High Resolutions

  1. DT says: Loved it! Keep looking up love and I plan to do the same. xx.DT
    December 31, 2013 at 4:14 am
  2. designchic says: These images are amazing. Yes, we'll definitely be reaching for the sky in 2014 and pork, black eyed peas and greens will be served at our house tomorrow...Southern style. Wishing you all the best in the new year!!
    December 31, 2013 at 9:44 am
  3. Duvall says: Beautiful words, beautiful pictures. I'm going to read it over and over again. Thank you Sister!
    December 31, 2013 at 9:46 am
  4. Lynn and Dick Ziglar says: Frances, Truly inspiring photographs. Car drives are times we have to look up and see our world. I sometimes call Dick when I am by myself on road trips to tell him to look up at the sky and he is in amongst the skyscrapers in Atlanta. One recently going to N.C. was a soft white bolster of clouds in a ring around the sky of yes, Carolina Blue. love, much good in the year '14 (and many posts like this one) to the newlyweds, forever, Lynn
    December 31, 2013 at 10:18 am
  5. Cindy White says: This sentence says it all Frances... "In this New Year I’m going to keep looking for my whatever-it-is, and I’m going to start letting go of whatever it isn't." Thank you and Happy New Year.
    December 31, 2013 at 10:32 am
  6. Allston says: Just what I needed this New Year's Day. Thank you Frances for these great words!
    December 31, 2013 at 10:43 am
  7. Camille says: Beautiful pictures, love the words. Happy New Year
    December 31, 2013 at 10:45 am
  8. Janet Guyton says: Lovely words and pictures. Now I'm off to get my black-eyed peas. Happy New Year!
    December 31, 2013 at 10:53 am
  9. E.B. says: LOVED this, beautiful post, Ms. Frances. Wishing you and yours a wonderful 2014. Black-eyed peas, cornbread and greens most definitely on the menu tomorrow, come on over!
    December 31, 2013 at 11:20 am
  10. Leslie in Little Rock says: "Another Kind of Sky"…How many times have I wished for another kind of sky than the one I have been given?…It breaks my heart to say-"Too Many". Thank you Frances for a beautiful NYE post. OH, and I'm glad you had to "say something" too. HNY! XO
    December 31, 2013 at 11:27 am
  11. Maureen Mulvany says: Thank you for your beautiful post. Happy New Year to you!
    December 31, 2013 at 11:48 am
  12. Beth Yarbrough says: Happy New Year, Frances. I spent a few wonderful days in December falling in love with Tarboro, North Carolina - knew you would appreciate:-) Here's to a great 2014 - and thanks for this post - loved the pictures and the sentiment.
    December 31, 2013 at 12:08 pm
  13. Karen Louise Falk says: Thank you for your beautiful post. Happy New Year.
    December 31, 2013 at 12:57 pm
  14. paige ward says: Great inspiration for 2014!!! So glad your skies are not falling! XO Henny Penny.....
    December 31, 2013 at 2:04 pm
  15. lissy parker says: Have a Very Happy New Year! xo, Lissy
    December 31, 2013 at 2:10 pm
  16. Linda Dabney says: How dreamy…Thank you for these beautiful images. HNY, Linda
    December 31, 2013 at 3:01 pm
  17. Amy Allara says: Frances: "...to find the beauty in it and not attempt to negotiate another kind of sky." Great line, great wisdom for 2014 or any time at all----
    December 31, 2013 at 3:24 pm
  18. Randall Day says: Love this.
    December 31, 2013 at 3:27 pm
  19. L says: Collards in our pot and fluffy white clouds rolling over this Tar Heel sky...A beautiful way to end one year and start another - Thx F!
    December 31, 2013 at 3:29 pm
  20. Rachel says: Thank You, Frances, for brightening up my world.
    December 31, 2013 at 6:07 pm
  21. penny valentine says: Beautiful skies and beautiful words! Hoppin John and cheese grits, yum!
    December 31, 2013 at 6:36 pm
  22. Paul Boehmke says: Beautifully written and so appropriate Frannie...
    January 1, 2014 at 1:08 am
  23. Laurette Kittle says: WowFrances!!! Skies the limit! But... There is no limit on your always inspiring words full of wisdom and humor! And we need that humor to get though some of those stormy skies! I forced myself to get up at dawn today the first day of 2014 just cause I wanted to see the sunrise (and of course Instagram ha!) but the sun was behind some pretty thick clouds so instead I got a pretty spectacular color packed sky. I too am going to try to practice gratitude for exactly where I be. Here's to joy and brightness ! Love you Laurette
    January 1, 2014 at 9:18 am
  24. Nancy M says: Beautiful blog images, thanks for sharing Laurette! Happy New Year Frances!
    January 1, 2014 at 12:35 pm
  25. Sara Vass says: Frances, such terrific skies. And thoughts, turned message. Laurette, you too are an inspiration, always a hoot and a holler. Happy New Year to you both. Wth love...
    January 1, 2014 at 12:39 pm
  26. Patti Cromer says: Thank you Frances! Your words and pictures always move me to be more thoughtful. This year I am going to just enjoy the wonderful life I have been given! Spend as much time with people that really mean something to me! Thanks for your sharing of heart you do so well!
    January 1, 2014 at 9:18 pm
  27. Renee kelleher says: Letting go of whatever it isn't to make way for whatever it is....I am going for that thought! I have my work cut out for me now. These are Beautiful views looking up at our amazing world. Thank you for sharing, sweet friend.
    January 2, 2014 at 12:41 pm
  28. Gayle Alston says: Frances, I love this and have sent it to my children and many, many friends. Now I just have to figure out what the "IT" is or isn't! Thank you. Gayle
    January 2, 2014 at 5:32 pm
  29. Sissy Watson says: Beautiful thoughts - thanks & happy 2014!
    January 2, 2014 at 6:56 pm
  30. lib says: Breathtaking!!! Happy New Year!!
    January 4, 2014 at 4:57 pm
  31. Blair Peters says: Happy New Year! And I'm going to try to stay calm this year while the world around me AND sky constantly change- except for in California where it's always sunny blue sky these days- (and paint a bunch of landscapes) Thanks for the beautiful photos! Be careful on the highway! XOXOX
    January 9, 2014 at 10:22 am
  32. SuzyA says: Thank you for this nice way to start the day. So refreshing to get positive emails showing beauty, rather than chain letters and political satyrs.
    January 13, 2014 at 8:46 am