For all our looking on the bright side and silver linings and positive attitudes and and and, sometimes the news is bad and there is no getting around it. It hurts and scares, and just plain sucks. If that’s where you are right now, I am sorry, and I send you a hug and a prayer. Remember how many people love you and that God loves you. We can know God’s love even if we have no effing idea what She’s up to. Remember the only moment you have is right now, and be there. Just be. Photo Anja Niemi.